You are starting a fresh chapter of your life, well congratulations.Whenever I hear somebody talking about their new resolutions, they get quite serious and confused.Why do we make resolutions? To make our life easy ain’t it? So go easy on yourself and have fun. I make resolutions with the thought process of learning new things in life and to become a better person. This year also I have made 15 new year resolutions.
Let’s talk about top 15 new year resolutions in 2016 and how to achieve them!
1: Be grateful for everything: A thankful person is thankful under all circumstances. A complaining soul complains even if he lives in a paradise. Never let the things you want make you forget the things you have. I sometimes get upset with God about the tragedies he gave me but eventually I thank him because I needed that for my art. So dear God, I want to take a minute, not to ask of anything from you, but simply to say thank you for all that I have.
2: Give more time to your parents
Parents love us unconditionally and not when the condition is right. We move out of the house to have the freedom but we often forget they are the ones who ever really had our back. They are the only ones who are obliged to love us, from the rest of the world, we have to earn it. I am so lucky to have such beautiful parents. I am blessed. I am their only child and I will take best care of them. Arguments do happen sometimes but the love we share surpasses such things.
3: Escape completely I want to go on more adventures. Be around good energy. Learn new things. The great affair is to move. I want to turn myself into a storyteller.
4:Dance More: I can’t explain in words how much I love dancing. I dance to the music of the madness inside me.Most people are passionate about the gym for their fitness. Well, my passion is to dance and fitness comes as a gift in return. So yeah, I will start dancing more and whenever and wherever I can.
5:Cherish the human connections: I use to keep things in my heart but now I have learned to let go. The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. There is no way to peace, peace is the way. Never get tired of doing little things for your loved ones.
6:Own a dog: Whoever said that diamonds are a girl’s best friend, never owned a dog. They don’t care what you wear and where you live. All they care is that you’re there. Dog is the best therapist. The more I know about people, the more I know I love a dog. Dog lovers, you feel me right? Hopefully, I’ll be able to convince my parents to let me have a pet.
7:Work smarter : Yes I know, everybody works towards their dreams but sometimes we all loose the grip. We get bored of working hard. I remember I use to work hard for continuous days and then take a long break as a reward. That’s not the right way to work. Being productive is the most important thing that matters. Taking a break is essential. Our body is not a machine. Smart work is more important than hard work.
8:Write a letter to someone special on a special day: When you are in a relationship, the most tricky time is the time to choose the perfect gift for your partners. I like things that create an emotional touch. I am not saying gifts can’t make you happy but that can be done throughout the year. You want to make them feel the best. Imagine your life without them and think of all the things that make your partner special and how they changed you as a person. There is no comparison of those words
9:Maintain a diary: All my close friends believe that I am a great motivator. Not really, I love reading stuff so whenever I find something inspiring, I just pen down those things. When I feel sad, I open that diary and trust me it works. Sometimes all you need is powerful words to motivate you. Some words are so influential that they press a trigger in our brains. It works like a magic. Write down those words that make you feel powerful. You will see a big difference.
10: Relax, let it go. Sometimes we get obsessed with the things. We get so obsessed with our happiness and sadness. It’s good to feel the things but do not get too attached with them. Nothing stays for long. Change is constant. Experience the beauty of life and its colors. Do not overthink. Take it easy and go with the flow.
11:Keep to a minimum: Be it your makeup or your shopping habit. Keep it to a minimum. Focus more on the things that make you a better person. I am no way criticizing it but I am just telling you to focus more on the other things. Sometimes we get super obsessed with the makeup, gadgets, fancy clothes. The greed for these things will never die. what really matters in the long run is those moments that make your life beautiful.
12:Pass a smile to at least one person a day: This trick is really useful for people like me who loves to stick to one emotion and then feel sad about it. At times when I don’t have a good day at office, when I am on my way back to home, I pass a smile to small kids or a girl who is looking pretty or old people. Do not pass the witty smiles, I hope you know what I mean.
13:Donate unworn clothes to needy people: At times I go to eat at places and get something packed for poor kids and give them the food. It feels so good to see the smiling faces. They do not ask for much so next time when you see poor kids in your society, please donate some old clothes. It will give you a great feeling and satisfaction.
14:Stand up for yourself. Nobody knows you better than you. People are not that great outside. Do not feel low for anything. God has blessed you with a beautiful soul. Nourish it and do not let anyone hurt you.
15: Organize your life: Messy is not sexy every time. Keep your surroundings clean. Make bed before you sleep. It hardly takes 10 minutes. Decorate your room with handmade things. Create a good vibe at your place. It feels so good once to make it a habit.
These were the top 16 new year resolutions in 2016 .
We all make new year resolutions and it’s fun and the best part about making the new year resolution is that we get to learn so much about ourselves and there is always an excitement to do new things every year and this life is all about hope. I hope you enjoyed this list of top 16 new year resolutions in 2016.
Share your new year resolutions with us. I am all ears